Because it's almost impossible to feel sorry for them. Thank you Sylvia for a well written article. Becayse they like gossip so much, leave her dry with nothing to talk about. Then she would victimize herself and blame everyone around her. Finally, to our regret, years later we gave up and let the kids go since she was ruining our and their lives in the process of her severe selfishness. Lol, so true. Libra is one of the most balanced signs, but when depressed, they tend to have feelings of instability and moodiness, with a reduced urge to socialize. But..we can also be the greatest ally and nurturer you have ever known in your life. As a typical Libran male, I am well aware of my faults. A Libra mom still reminds her 50-year-old daughters to say thank you.. If she is pushed into a conversation, then she may try to avoid specific aspects of the conversation. You will find that the following article will help you navigate your relationship when she is dealing with grief, doubt, or regret. Because I can't see positive future at some point. The stereotype that portrays us like a sweet candy floss and charming lucky charms is so misleading. 5.) (Of course I'm born in October hahaI happen to be controlling indeed toward those who get closer to me; in the work-social arenaa combination of practicality- choosing your battles- and impracticality - picking battles you can't win, just to make a point, I do that too. It's a bad place to be when someone makes you feel you don't know what you're talking about, are stupid, or just plain crazy. Then i feel bad afterwards and consume chocolates laced with other people's feelings. After everything happened I moved on to another relationship and was starting to become happy again. Turned to a puppy, sorry from heaven to hell. Librans can truly be cruel and selfish, manipulative and conniving. And booooyyyyyy. Give it all to me the good and the bad. I can't with him I just like his attractiveness. But if they open up, their anger and sadness could lead to disaster. I was accused of keeping secrets, not being an open book. Throughout the majority of her life, a Libra woman is aware of herself when she makes decisions. Unfortunately, some people are selfish, insensitive, and don't know how to value a sincere person like myself. i ended up living a lot of my life with my grandmother because my mom would not stop physically abusing me. This may cause her to decide that she should abstain from making major decisions. All those who commented and appear to be a Libra and can't handle criticism, you just proved the whole author's point. (I made Mr. Libra 2 look good in photos). To start with, yes when we are grumpy we are the worst thing that can happen to humanity. What's hard is, is that a lot of this does happen. Trying to keep everything balanced and perfect and then blaming myself if everyone isn't happy. Hard to believe? I was married to a Virgo woman, one who heavily did the virgo thing which is pessimistically driven to chastise and be judgmental to the end. She doesn't have money or a job with 3 kids luckily I still support my kids and back to her parents house. Sylvia Sky (author) from USA on September 06, 2016: The constellation Libra contains stars that belonged to Scorpio until astronomers (not astrologers!) We'd take up for a stranger in a minute if their being treated unfairly no matter color, race, sex, or religion if its unfair it brings the rage out in us. So Im like that is the craziest thing. They lie and pretend they are fine. We are the empaths of the Zodiac.the unconscious rhythm of the universe connected to both sides of all things: Light/Dark - Good/Evil - Balance/Chaos - Moderation/Gluttony - Sanity/Insanity - Love/Hate - Beauty/Ugliness - Consciousness/Unconsciousness etc etc etc. im not saying all libras are like this but my mother certainly is. We can see all sides to all things.all dimensions.all patterns..all rhythms.all nuances. Very childlike. me, me, me..lie. So, for example, when you tell someone that you are feeling happy or depressed, that can reference just about anything but only you know what those emotions really mean to you. Libras strive for balance when hurt, making it hard to tell when something is wrong. Are looking for the meaning of life, the chronically lazy and manipulate the environment to work for them. Something darker? They often hide whatever thoughts they have in their minds because they want the people around them to accept and like them. LIBRA: Libra tends to swallow their anger and sadness. Then he would get mad insanely mad when ignored. Some of them will utter insults and call you all sorts of names under the sun if you upset their inner peace. When the fact of the matter is, they no fodder to throw back. I really am reevaluating things now for sure!! They dont mind killing u if thats what it takes. I try to always be fair and give everyone a fair chance. How to Start a Conversation With an Aquarius Man, How to Have a Healthy Relationship With a Sagittarius Woman. Undoubtedly, they are much easier than the older generation, succumb to feelings. They may feel so lopsided, they'll stop caring about their favorite things, even severing ties with their passions completely. Wants two men at one time, expecting both to remain while she decides, but they better not find another woman while the libra is deciding. There are bad people, no matter which sign they are, and your sign is not inmune to that evilness. As time progresses, a Libra woman may become more ready to respond to people in a sharp or cruel manner. But again, these are the negative ones I'm talking about, of course. If you notice that she has isolated herself, then you should take the time to teach yourself about what happens when a Libra woman is sad. When these emotions take over, be aware of a Virgo that becomes blunt and oppositional. The cat she got for us 1month before she moved in liked me more than her so we got 1 more so they could play together that failed dead cat. They are the true incarnations of the narcissists! I, might be a good actor to not-so-close people, or to be more accurate, the mirror - to be exact same reflection of themselfs. she can do as she pleases. So if i find your chatty, im out of here. So maybe he's still a paedophile and that can't be changed. Pretty damn true. Theres so many sides to a Libra, such exciting creatures. Like someone mentioned in a comments below, Libras have a gut feeling that is almost always accurate and they should definetely trust that. They become anxious, isolated, and tend to "feel everything" in an attempt to cope with this giant wave of emotion. And just reading some of the negative opinions and attacks on Libras by others here, it just reaffirms my choice. I have begun meeting new people like this "dont be fooled, I am not what it seems". Now i know how to deal with him.. I then inherited a lot of money (and I already own my home and rent it out which I know she hated as she wasn't interested in seeing the renovation photos) and I told her my news. he is a great father and husband. We care about people about there feelings if some one is getting hurt we do too . she was so nice to outsiders but treated my family and dad like dirt. Don't let their "niceness" fool you. I ignore my family my friends and my work. TRY ME!!! She should be recognized for this and given her Propers. It has been two years and I am still hurting because I havent fully invested in myself. In love, these people are loyal, as long as you are useful and fit the perfect image they have of how a life with a perfect partner should be. Whoever wrote thiswrote it in a condescending way towards libraswhat is there zodiac? When I get angry I yell and scream but if it gets worst I start getting physical and it's scary. I let her into my world denying my gut instinct and being the stupidly open person I can be, shared a few secrets - thankfully nothing shameful, just emotional things from my past. This has happened to me more than twice in my life at very different times and situations(in a relationship, almost boyfriend, friend, boss) with men and women libras. It is possible that her downcast feelings will develop into anger or rage. A lot of Librans a prone to having gallstones, kidney and dental problems. i was a good kid. This can be dangerous for Libra when it comes to relationships, as they tend to put the needs of their partner above their own, especially Libra men. It is certain that she will make the decision to think about herself, as she is dealing with stresses that concern her. That gut feeling is what actual makes us feel human, not the thoughts or beliefs we have, because they can often lie and the heart we have, even if it's synthetic or artificial can't. Libra Man Not Texting Back: What Do I Do? Furthermore, Libra with Libra Mercury have Mercuries that are either in the morning phase, the evening phase, or combust. If they're a brilliant Libran, I will definitely listen. Answer Libras often find it difficult to express their emotions, especially when it comes to relationships. And I don't want to become a mother after all I read here , It's a big responsibility that I can't handle I'm very fragile and need someone to constantly take care of me. I would also like to remind everyone that this isn't a "meltdown" I am having a reasonable opinion. And I know that Libra's have dark side, and how deep it truly goes. By the way, those of you who had Libran parents that treated you like garbage, what's your sign? I stupidly had them pegged as pacifists, harmless COULD I BE MORE WRONG? The Arena Media Brands, LLC and respective content providers to this website may receive compensation for some links to products and services on this website. If peace cant be had, silence and secrets will do. This is likely a defense mechanism, as she may feel that any criticism of her behaviors is a rejection of herself. Not a single libra I can truly trust. They are popular works as well and everything that motivates them is to please themselves under the guise of providing the other. I let her Stew in her own poop made it worst. I use to be a joyful person and chose to spread that joy until i actually got out of dreamland and saw reality and i just lost all hope in humanity so if reading this comment and this article amuses you or disgust you and youd rather have bitter, souless people in your life like ive become then ruin someones accidental innocent hope of life and the world. Its that I still struggle loving myself and getttin my wants and needs. Cancerians are the mommas of the friend group, regardless of gender. Be careful, because she carries a grudge like no other, so get on her good side or you will definitely regret it later. Like you might know, Libras absolutely hate confrontation. She may be selfish, but this is not meant to be neglectful or abusive. Think of Mahatma Gandhi. I can't believe this is how I am? (3) I had the "right" appearance for him to be seen with. Why not radiate Love instead, and shine your light bright enough to dissipate any shadow you happen upon? Bye bitch see ya never. Try doing that for a day lol. Stressful Circumstances. This describes her to a T. I couldn't wrap my head around it because I'm not like that. Another TV judge who had an attitude is Simon Cowell (Oct. 7). But hard for the Librans who try their absolute best so show that they are genuine, and actually try to be even and open minded. She was having an affair with a much younger man who lavished gifts on her constantly, this we knew was true, she talked terribly about him behind his back, belittling berating and putting him down constantly, she would talk badly about other staff when she thought no one was around, if you caught her at it and called her out on her behaviour then you could count yourself the enemy. We often come of too dry and soulless, artificial, but for me it just happens because I am so numb from all the emotions and guilt about the most stupid little things.I've spent years trying to figure myself out, because I don't want to be full of shit, I want to be good and sincere and honest. I, pity myself to the point where i start crying. A lot of u on this site say too much. Came to help him. Let's be honest ladies and gentlemen, you weren't here to read about 1000 reasons why people should love us librans.. you just got a dose of reality, live with it. Libras love with a passion. All that's left (like the bad traits mentioned above which seemed to me like traits of a dangerous personality disorder) is formed depending on countless variables (the way one was raised, experiences etc..) we do have a dark side, but we don't all react the same way. She took the kids and tried to move into a shelter and she didn't even know why. The women love only themselves, crave attention, are users, connive to no end, but claim its never their fault BALANCE, where? Their lover. TaurusGrounded and steady, this fixed earth sign has more mental and emotional strength than the average sign. He can't see or type his sister's name in his FB IM? For example, take Gwyneth Paltrow (Sept. 27), Gandhi again, and John Lennon (Oct. 9), the love-and-peace guy who cheated on his first wife "thousands" of times and told her so. I know two Libras. None of this rings true for me and you should not say "even the best" this emplies EVERY SINGLE Libra thinks more of themselves than they think of you. Nobody tells scorpios what to do. They need someone to talk to about their problems, in order to help them navigate life. Cancer: Cancers can not hide their emotions and really cannot control them (for the most part that is). Pinning any unoleasantness you are experiencing from people on Libras, flies in the face of Spirituality, as we understand it. We need to hear someone saying out loud that the stuff is going to be okay, otherwise if we don't hear it, we don't consider it real. I, remember all the bad stuff anyone has ever done to me BUT i have a patience of a God. We will have justice and we will exact the pain you have placed on us and we will make you feel everything you ever made us feel in one moment. Visit SAMHSA's website, or call 1-800-662-HELP (4357) or 1-800-273-TALK (8255). Yes I do get angry and yes I get angry a lot sometimes. They are experts at reading people and can usually tell when someone is not ready to hear what they have to say. I know someone with libra sun and moon who has all of the above mentioned as well. He's sick but I don't know what to do now because I've reached an adult age and have lived with the nightmare of those horrible experiences in my life. Think of Judge Judy (born October 21) and the pain she's seen and absorbed over 25 years as a judge in family court. They are the best at putting on a good social front, especially at parties and board meetings. glil ou. I looked each up, the decans explained it well. It is build up frustration, anger and pain, because you once were nice, and understood and accepted ppl by the way they are, but we seem to have to mold, like we aren't good enough Well, I that feel that my negative side is taking over at the moment, don't really enjoy it, I'm not in peace, I cry when I'm alone, think that I just wanna die, it's like I'm out of place . All I wanted was ppl to accept me the way I accept ppl by the way they are, and for example stop wondering if what I say to a 3rd person upsets my partner, etc Maybe, some ppl here commenting on bad libras, we aren't perfect we're humans, and we libras look for balance (apologies for wrong methods to achieve such) , but maybe try to find the reason behind such behaviour and maybe you can help We aren't that stubborn! This article is way too shallow for the most part. (2) Really? We are deeply complex creatures and live in multiple worlds simultaneously.so getting a direct answer out of us will be difficult because we live in so many places at once that an "in the box" answer will never be provided to who and why we are. Did i learn a lot! When sadness tips that balance, they can fall over. So that could be their another dark, sick and spiteful dark sides to add into the ones mentioned in this article. Their status is important to them before everything, even before their family, they are treacherous and chasing sickly, dressing up as those who are fans so they do not have their own character, for them there is nothing to admire a man who slept with many girls, not considered to be a man, not cool - This is the person they imitate every day and every day until they meet someone greater than him in this field is very shallow, and thus inherently boring dressing up as other people, are subject in any depth. A lifelong libra friend I'm strongly considering giving up. Aries tends to go all out when it comes to feeling sad. For me i prefer friends who speak brutal true than sweet but fake words. Have. I cant speak for every libra but i know I hate myself everyday and wish i were never born bc of how i can be, i especially should've never been reckless and had children to carry my guilt. Made Mr. Libra 2 do libras hide their sadness good in photos ) and the bad stuff anyone ever. 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